absentelement69

clean, safe, discreet guy looking for some fun with the same. some what shy at first, but once i get comfortable it 's all good. I have been in relationships with both women and men. And I whole heartedly know that I can be attracted to either a woman or a man in the same way. Of course when we talk about attraction, the basis of which could be purely aesthetic (come on, who doesn 't want a hot girlfriend or a hot boyfriend ). As for myself, it ultimately comes down to the person inside the woman or the man. Of course I still have the desire for someone “hot”. But that is beside the point and on another level all together. And besides…being hot doesn’t necessarily make them a good person. Most people, well probably everyone being that we are all learned individuals, would label me as bisexual. Since, bisexuality as defined in any credible resource includes: having an orientation to both sexes. I personally do not agree with labels, and refute any such classification. A friend of mine would say that I don 't identify with labels because I like to go against the grain, or that I do not like to conform to some ideal, just to be different. Which is very true, for my reasons. To me, labels create a one sided interpretation. You 're either this or that, or you have to do this or that. In my mind, NO I don 't have to do what ever some person says is the ideal way. I don 't have to believe or agree with anything someone wrote in a book (or wherever). I can choose to believe, and do, whatever I want. In my mind, labels aid in creating barriers and in the process we are left with less open minded people. Which in the end generates misunderstanding and hate. I know for a fact that I am capable of falling in love with a man or a woman. That doesn 't mean I will long for guy sex if I am with a girl, or long for girl sex if I am with a guy. It 's not about sex to me. There is much more to a person than what is between their legs. I just know for a fact that both women and men could please me physically, sexually, and most importantly, emotionally. The emotions that someone makes you feel are what ultimately matter. So if someone asks me if I am straight, I will say, no. If someone asks me if I am gay, I will say, no. And if someone asks me if I am bi sexual, I will say, here read this…LOL…no, I wouldn’t. But I wouldn’t say yes either. I don’t have a word for it, but if you need one to make yourself feel better, I will say that I am open minded. To come to an end...if you can understand what you have just read, that 's great. If you can respect what you just read, even better. And if neither is possible, well that 's just fine too. I have been questioned, and judged, on this topic many times. There are people who say they are accepting, but deep down inside they are not. I know this might sound a little deep for a sex site, but I just felt a personal need to write something that would possibly assist in understanding me. People should fall in love with their eyes closed. Just close your eyes. Don’t look. – Andy Warhol clean, private encounters, discreet, no strings attached. ...

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